IS it too rude to say you want to marry.?

I grew up in a boarding school as a child because my parents felt that was the best way to guarantee a good life for me. I always grew up feeling empty inside and always wanted a family on my own some day. In my culture, we have arranged marriage but my parents are open minded towards dating someone and marrying as well. They are very understanding ( well most of the times). I did date in college but my last relationship was very abusive and it ended with my family getting involved to break it off. Ever since, then I dont think they have faith in my choice. I am now 23 and in medical school. I havent dated since my break up a year ago but I am hoping to go back out there. My mom and I were talking today and she casually mentioned that I have to get married at 25. I mustered up some courage and told her that I dont want to wait that long. I told her I am open to the idea of arrnaged marriage or I myself will go back to dating. My worry is, am I being fair in this.... I really dont think parents have a say when I should be married...I am tired of being single in medical school and I really want some companionship duing my clinicals. The thought of being alone another 2 years is scary to me. What do you think?