How to protect an apache server?

I am using my computer as a server using apache php mysql and phpadmin I am also using dyndns so I can use my own domain and host my website from home, the website is working fine but I want to know how to protect my servers from all sorts of attacks like ddos and other attacks. I am currently using McAfee 2011 but I don't know if that is enough. Thanks a lot.

I have a pool party to go to tomorrow?

yea a shirt and shorts is fine. lots of ppl do that. Just don't be one of those people that wear their shirts into the pool because that would look weird and you will just be showing off your insecurities to everyone. Anyways, most people understand that not everyone has a great body and they won't judge you for your weight. Just try to have fun and don't spend the whole time thinking "omg what do they think" bc chances are they aren't even thinking about you. Just let your personality be more prominent then your weight!

What is the best thing to do for having a large emtiness inside?

I suffer from many mental illnesses, but in a way that's irrelevant. So don't suggest treatment. But what could i do, get, change to get rid of this chronic black-hole feeling in my gut?

Need a Mans Opinion Please?

marriage is a big step dear. you both have to be very sure they are the right person for you. maybe he thinks he can,t afford to keep a wife or maybe kids on his salary. maybe he had disasters in the past with other women. just be patient with him and don,t bug him. he will come around in his own time. if you keep pushing him then he might leave.

Why is there a limit on Answers?

It's a way to make sure you get addicted. It's like giving somebody just a little cocaine, then telling them to come back for more. It clearly works well enough for P&S...

Could you please tell ?

i have attended london fashion weekend many a times open to normal public .i wanted to know if new york also hosts something like new york fashion weekend which is also open to public ? please let me know if its dere n if yes then where should i look for the tickets ? thanx

If you solve this love issue you deserve a gold medal, it's a doozie.?

Well I have come across a guy or two like this. Please don't get depressed or it could turn into a major health problem. This seems as if you love her and she loves you back. The thing in the situation is that the more she loves you the more she pushes away. This to me is normal for any woman it seems. Just love her let her know you'd do anything you can for her and that your not going anywhere. Stay with her if you love her. True love is an amazing feeling. Nothing like it. But to answer your direct question go for the long wait. It will be worth it!

Im a Doctor; my Co-woker is doing weird things. Please help?

Report it the hospital directly, and try to get some evidence (photos) but don't put yourself in danger.

Newspaper Resume HELP!?

I'd be glad to help with creating you resume for the newspaper/media industry. Visit my website or e-mail directly if you still need help: klwediting@gmail.com.

Texting my crush, what should i do?

ive like this girl for awhile now...were not to close ive talk to her a few times in person, had her laughing a bunch tho...she added me on facebook we would talk here and there nothing special...well a couple weeks ago i asked her question about school, she sent me a message that she was deleting her facebook and told me to text her..so i did, we had a small convo about my question...a week later i just mustered the courage to just text her more casual but instead of just saying "hey whats up"...i text her a joke she responded right away we texted all day just teasing each other...now i know this doesn't mean she likes me or anything but atleast im getting closer to her...my question is after this what should i do the last thing i want to do is be creepy or needy...so should i let her text me now or should i wait a couple days...any advice would be great???

Should I go after her now after many years?

Yes of course, if you really love her follow what your heart tells you. You know I met my wife thru a friend's group, then I joined the group later on. I have the guts to tell her that I love her altho she told me that it's not her priority that time. All of our friends knew that I'm courting her tho she doesn't entertained me. Time passed by (three years to be exact), then I came to visit her once again to tell her that my love for her never fades. And she accepted me, and we've been married for 21 years now. May be she's just waiting for your first move. Do it!

How to better word this clustered up sentence? (Writing help, please +10PointsBEST/ANSWER ASAP/thmbs + Points)?

Wanting to expand financially, I purchased a limousine from an independent company in Los Angeles to begin the starting up of my new, luxury transportation service, Pearl Limousine. The company was located three hours from where I lived and after completing the financing, I had to go through six months of training to gain my license from the California Public Utilities Commission (CPUC). Though six months may seem a long time, this was actually the shortest time possible to get a license due to my hard work.

Should I give my gay crush a 3rd try?

Okay, folks... It's complicated. It started almost 2 years ago. I went to school canteen and one time I noticed some guy seemed staring at me more often than he should. And after several more times, I figured he had a crush on me. We even sat quite close one evening, when the whole canteen was almost empty -- and it was 2 years ago, a Valentine's day. Then, I approached and talked to him once, to pass my contact note, but he seemed nervous and said he's not interested in "hiking" (which was what I suggested when first breaking the silence), So I shrugged and thought no big deal. But then, after that, he resumed those starings, sneakily at a corner. So over 1 year ago, I gave him a 2nd try, when we bumped into each other on the street. I gave him a note again, thinking he's smart enough to initiate a call. But he did not. I was annoyed. So I wanted to totally forget him. I disappeared from my usual haunts, I disappeared from where I go to meals. I avoided him from the distance. .... then, just months ago, I relaxed a bit, and went to dinner with friends as they took me along. And it's him again. I am sure if he really isn't interested, he needs not look at me at all, or even walk by or sit near. It's so fishy (and annoying, in a way). I really wish he's braver and more confident. He's always so shy before me (not a word like a man!) And I asked myself, if I still like him, and at this moment, I think yes, still to some extent. But I don't want this to be obsessive. It's not the point. Should I sit back and wait, or should I muster up some courage and ask him out (again!). I am getting old, and have been celibate for like 6 years (not a day of dating, not a hug). This loneliness is heavy to bear. I love God, but I do not know the answer. What to do? Thanks buddies.

Should I go visit him?

I was involved/dating this guy while I was at college for most of the school year. We broke up before returning home because we live really far apart and he had an ex with which he still had to resolve things with back home. I'm really good friends with his best friend and it seemed that during the later part of the year, he developed feelings for me. I was interested but never acted on it because I was in a relationship, but now I'm single. This friend has asked me to come visit him this summer in a nearby state where he'll be working. I want to go (whether we end up hooking up or not), but I'm not sure if I should. First off, there's the point that the guy and I might get back together come fall when we're back on campus (uncertain, but possible), and second, even if we don't, they're still good friends. So, is this something I should not do for these reasons, or are they irrelevant?

Breakkkk upp! do I still like him?

so like last night I broke up with my boyfriendd for 5 months. and like I was thinking about it alot before and like i finally mustered up the courage to do it. well like idkk like i dont think i want to go out with him but like im still sadd and crying alot and idkk what this means :(

What should i get my gf for her birthday?

we've been best friends for a long time, we just recently starting going out but we're extremely close and i'm kind of low on money. what should i get her? should i make something? or muster up some more money

Original idea for a movie what do you think?

I'll just give the synopsis. I'll try to make it brief. So it's about this nerdy guy who is madly love with the head cheerleader at his high school set in the year 2511. He knows he has no shot with a girl like her but he feels like he at least has to go for it. So he finally musters up the courage to ask her out and she says I WOULDN'T DATE YOU IF YOU WERE THE LAST GUY ON EARTH!! He is humiliated, so much so that he drops out of school and runs away hides from the world. He settles himself in the heart of the amazon rain forest where after several years he goes insane and begins experimenting with gene splicing so that he can create the first giant spider-octopus hybrid that spews gamma radiation from it's tentacles. He trains these creatures to wipe out every guy on earth besides himself of course. He successfully does so after an intense battle and finds his true love, but it turns out shes a lesbo. So wacks the ***** he just ***** a bunch of sluts and repopulates the Earth, but then an asteroid comes out of nowhere and the Earth is completely destroyed. But it turns out it was all an hallucination from a coma cause it turns out the girl had a boyfriend and he beat the **** out of him after he asked out the girl.

I need a ROMANCE ANIME!?

Kiachou-Wa Maid Sama has LOTS of ROMANCE in it,but the only kiss(on the lips) 2 times in all 26 episodes,and it is the best romance anime i have EVER seen .I bet you would live it!!! Try it out!

Why do people always take my anti-social ways so personally?

They feel you're saying they're not good enough or something is wrong with them. I don't understand why you're worried about this so much though because as you said 'high school yeaars are a very insignificant part of my life." If you truly believe that, then it really doesn't matter whether people are calling you two-faced or not. Nothing they call you or do to you matters. Nothing you do matters. Just do whatever you want basically and not worry if you truly believe it's completely insignificant. I personally think your high school habits and personality traits will never go away so whatever you develop now will stay with you forever.

What are contract hours?

I 'applied' to be a summer camp counselor for this camp that my school is hosting but one of the directors said that the paid counselor jobs were all filled up but that I could work for contract hours. What does that mean? Thanks!!!!

Capacitor in parallel?

If the 6.76V is not from an external source and the system is at a steady state the only thing you can assume is that C1 and C2 are equal otherwise there must be another variable missing somewhere.

How do you install mods in a multiplayer minecraft server?

Do you need special mods made for multiplayer, or a special program like bukkit or something to run the mods? I just started hosting my own server, and am still getting the hang of it.

How to tell the difference between bowel obstruction and constipation?

A week ago I started taking pills (irrelevant to what) that has rare side effects of bowel obstruction and constipation. Three days after I started with the pills I started having constipations. That was four days ago. At the first two days I didn't make much of it because I've forgotten the side effects buy yesterday I looked them up and found the above side effects and I stopped taking the pills (that what it said to do if one of those side effects occur). It also said to go to the doctor but my mom is too damn positive that it just constipation but I'm not so sure. As I said I've been having constipations for 4 days in which I managed to poo twice, but both weren't full (they ended with constipations). So I looked up online about bowel obstruction and I don't know what to make of it. At small cases it said there'd be vomitting so I was relieved because I didn't vomit but then it said that in severe cases there might not be comitting :( I've been having stomach pains too. What to do help =[

I'm only a friend she says. Now what?

I don't think you did anything wrong so there is no need to say sorry. You can continue loving her if you can't stop, but don't use force, keep your love in your heart and wait her to understand, before this just to be a friend of her as usual. Hope this helpful.

Mystery gunk on crock pot. HELP!?

Ok, so here's the deal. Recently, my mom made some chicken in her ceramic crock pot. She'd done this before, and this has never happened before. So, I do all the dishes in our house, and when I get the crock pot, there's the usual gunk on it, as well as a beige plaster on the inside. So I scrub it with a brush, soap, and all the elbow grease I can muster, and it looks clean. I put it in the dishwasher, and when it's done I empty it. The crock pot still has the plaster stuff on the inside. So I scrub it again and I discover that the gunk seems to disappear when water touches it (this happens often with our dishes). So I scrub it and run it through the dishwasher multiple times, scrubbing it between each wash. It just came out of the dishwasher for the third time, and it looks the same as it did when it was first dirty. I don't know what this is, i've tried using a brush and soapy water, my fingernails (such as they are) and soapy water, a brush with soap, letting soapy water sit in it, i even put extra detergent in the dishwasher this last time and it's still dirty! this gunk is spawn of the devil! how do I get rid of it?

What free host forum should be used?

I'm looking to create a forum focusing on discussions/collaborations for teachers. I'm familiar with zetaboards and invisionfree (both of which are free of charge) and I was wondering if anyone had suggestions one way or the other? OR something I haven't run across yet! Thank you in advance!! :)

What are some good airsoft game modes?

I've been thinking of hosting an airsoft war. I usually host at my house, I live in the foothills so my property is hilly and moderately forested. Awesome for airsoft. But I want to play some games besides TDM and FFA, what are some good games to play with around 8 people?

Why does NBC have a 10:1 ratio of Democrat to Republican guests on its shows?

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I am so bitter about my past that I can't move forward?

It sounds horrible what happened to you but the last you want to do is let your past get in the way of your future. It is clear that you did not have a good time in high school and growing up as a result of your cousin and best friend but you need to just move on from that. Yes killing them is not an option here but there is something you can do. Do not let them determine your future. You have already given them enough but its time to take it all back. prove them wrong in whatever they said. It is all about changing your mindset,the way you think,the way you see yourself and this will establish how others see you.Stop dwelling too much on the past and what could have been and change the 'now' and establish what can be. Start to build your self esteem. draw on the strength of your other good friends. Stop being so hard on yourself and giving yourself a hard time for staying in those relationships with them. You were still young and vulnerable. But as you grow older you should learn to let the past be in the past. You still have a long life ahead of you. And as for the girls, i'm sure they are still there so go for it. There is no reason not to pursue them or any other girls you like for that matter.

How to start a conversation with a girl through facebook (I haven't talked to her in real life)?

Ok, so, there's this girl I have a little bit of a crush on, and I'm pretty sure she has a thing for me too. When I was still in school (I'm a senior so we get out sooner), we often exchanged eye contact, like she'd turn around or to her side and glance at me when she walked to her class. One time, her and her friend kept turning around and glancing at me. Another time, I saw her with some other from the corner of my eye, so I turned to my side and our eyes met for a few seconds. Then when I turned away, I heard giggling coming from their direction. She's smiled a few times, but at the time, I wasn't completely sure it was intended for me, so I didn't smile back, I just kept my eyes locked on hers. I promised myself I'd approach her, but whenever I'd see her, my heart would start racing then I'd get super nervous and not do it. On my last day of school, when I was waiting in line to get my cap and gown, I saw her and her friend. I finally mustered up the courage to smile at her, but she didn't see me (I was in a huge crowd of like 300 people), so she just went to class. She's the only girl I've ever been this sure likes me back. Just the way we made eye contact, it felt so different from how it'd feel with other girls. And there's just a gut feeling. I ended up finding her on facebook tagged in one of my friend's pictures, and decided to add her. She accepted it, and now, I don't know what to do. I want to start a convo with her through facebook, but I don't really know how. Thing is, I don't know how to start a convo with ANYONE on facebook, boy or girl, if I haven't talked to them in real life, but since I don't have school anymore, I guess this is the only way of getting contact of her. So, how would I start a conversation with her?

Everyone always wants to "get their man back."...I guess I'm no different. Could you help me?

i am surely surprised at you here, see women are sneaky and to tell you if it was me you wanted to see you should wear the shortest jean shorts and tight t-shirt and ask him out. the dude will melt honestly girls can make a dude do weird things. just be a good girl and take him by the arm and tell him to follow you. that's all i can guess but have confidence in yourself. your awesome..

What is a good web hosting site for a database driven website?

I am making my own website, but I need to make a database so that users will be able to register and login. Any web hosts that make this easier?

Being rude... SO is it ok to be rude and then immediately apologize?

So I work at a company with a bunch of idiots. I work for a nitrogen plant as security and I sign drivers in and out. SO I have to deal with the monkeys that work for the company. I was following company procedure and even though I was, the monkey on the other end got crappy with me and told me not to ever do what I did again (long story-details irrelevant). SO then he calls back on the phone 5 minutes later to apologize because he knows I can file an incident report for him talking crazy to me. (I didn't because he didn't really curse at me and it was just irritating, not really an attack on me personally). SO he apologized and didn't seem to mean it and yet i'm supposed to be okay with this? And it'll probably happen again because we have a whole stack of incident reports against these monkeys. SO whats your opinion? Can you slap someone in the face and say sorry directly after? And while apologizing continue to say I was wrong and he was right? That's no apology. Ughh. Just wanna hear others opinions to know i'm not crazy. Ha. Not really sure what the question is, just want opinions on the whole thing and what you would have done in this situation maybe. Thanks!

What to do if police show up at my house where im hosting a party?

I'm having some friends over for socializing. there will be beverages of an adult nature. what do i do if the police show up? they need a warrant to enter my home correct? how can i protect myself from being detected. any advice is helpful thanks!

Question about e-mail recipients and body messages?

I will be e-mailing a bunch of people (like a lot of people) and I need to personalize the messages. The general body message will be the same but I just need to change the recipient name within the message. Would it be possible to somehow e-mail them all at the same time with personalized names through another program or something? I feel like I learned how to do something like this by using excel, but I forgot and what I learned may be irrelevant. Thanks for the help!!

Bad grades in first semester of college. How badly can this affect me?

Spring semester is about to end and no matter how hard i tried, i was not able to achieve the best i know i can. I have a lot of potential, i know this, but my drive for success is not very strong, though i do dream big. I ace exams like crazy and my writing assignments are often praised. What can i do to really push myself to try harder? I started the semester with english 101, psych 52 (aspects of human sexuality), math 115, and service learning. I ended up dropping math half way through the semester 'cause that's when i started not understanding it, too late to receive a "w", thus receiving an "F". As for english, i couldn't focus and ended dropping too late on that one too and also failed. Service learning was easy so that's okay. and lastly, psychology 52...loved the class but i have 3 essays due tomorrow (last day to turn them in) and i haven't started. I'm struggling so much to muster up the energy to do this. What's wrong with me?? This semester hasn't been too great. And if you noticed, my schedule is all over the place. Meaning, my major wasn't set. Next semester i will have changed my major to business and plan to work hard. Anyway, what i'm asking here is, will this failed semester affect my academic future in a significant manner? I plan on transferring, maximum two years from now. What can i do? Help please. Thank you.

How Can I become an adult toy party host?

I am interested in becoming a toy party host but I am not sure which company to work with. I am looking for one that allows you to have co-ed parties and pays you 40-50% Where can I find a list of all these companies?

Thoughts on this extremely bad sonnet I wrote?

It is a little bit cliche, corny, and very Shakespearean like, but I actually like it. I wouldn't worry too much about the iambic pentamenter being messed up, all the good poets broke the rules. It's classy and romantic.

Alcoholic mentally/ emotionally abusive husband/father has made life a living nightmare for over 17 years? ?

Everyday it's something different, but yet it's all the same. Always having to worry, always having intense anxiety, depression, fear, and anger that life has to always be this way, that it's impossible to see it ever getting better. I'm 17, and my father has just consistently, constantly gotten worse. He's meaner, more violent, extremely hateful, and ive honestly been convinced that he is the devil living on earth. I never had a childhood, what little bit of childish joy I had was torn apart everytime he'd have a psychotic blowout of screaming at the top of his alcoholic, hateful lungs. I've always been responsible, and extremely careful in everything I do. He's always been irresponsible and impulsive, and would never, ever allow someone to not let him get his way. He only thinks about himself, and doesn't care about anyone else, at all. If I say I have a sore throat or something, he'll only care about himself, and say, yeah, I've had a scratchy throat all day, and go on and on and on. Honestly, that's just the tip of the iceberg, but to make it a little shorter, ive learned he's very much a narcissist, and he's got a heavy dose of hubris in him, thinking he can do no wrong. I've never, ever gotten an apology out of him, neither has my mother, (who is my best friend, and I am super close with, thank God, or I would have gone out of my mind a long time ago.) he just blames everything, EVERYTHING on us. No matter how irrelevant it is, he thinks it's our fault, all the time. And puts everything to extremes, telling is to get out of our own house, and saying anything he can to hurt us. Accusing, threatening, breaking down any little piece of hope we have, and I don't know what to do anymore. We don't even have a car, so we can't get away. He sold the parts for the car for booze. I don't see any way out of it. We have no money to. I guess I

I want to become a wolf biologist!!!!?

Well I just recently decided that I want to be a Wolf biologist. I wish I would have made up my mind sooner because I did take biology and biology to and passed both with an C average...Please understand im a typical teen from ever thing that has been going on I wasn't taking school seriously. I want to go back and show my full potential but I cant. I wanted to take zoology to better my chances with collage but I didn't know I had to take Chemistry to get into the class which I find being very irrelevant but cant change how they think. Please help give me some kind of advice its my senior year and its my last chance to clean up my act for good. So please help

Can someone explain this?

The interesting fact is that the non-believers were being forced into believing in Islam and if they refused, they either had their hand amputated or were hung. Some time during this genocide of the non-believers they decided to fight back and killed Muhammed for creating such a vicious cult (I don't really consider it a religion). I am not sure if they won or not (lets hope they did).

Can someone recommend me a few romance animes?

school rumble? i watched/read it and i really enjoyed it. school rumble is super cute! and we have similar taste in anime :D

Why hasn't the tea party house Introduced a single Jobs Bill Since Taking the house?

One of the Tea Party house Congress people was on CNN today and the Host asked them how many Jobs bills they have put forth and the guy said 0. Was all that talk about helping with jobs just campaign talk? All of that " Where are the Jobs Mr President"?

Was he bothered by me?

So the mall I work at has a designated parking lot for everyone who works there and NOBODY who doesn't work there can park there. We take a shuttle from the parking lot to the entrance of the mall (10 minute drive) and then catch the shuttle from the mall entrance back to the parking lot after our shifts are over. Today I was on the shuttle and decided to sit behind a cute guy. I mustered up the courage to engage in random chit chat w/ him. He was smiling and answering my questions but never asked my name (but I didn't ask for his either). I don't know... he didn't seem that interested, maybe he has a gf? When we got back to the parking lot he got off at the 1st stop and said goodbye to me, but nothing else. He didn't ask for my name or number at that point. Was he just being nice to me on the shuttle?

Hand car wash license?

i live in nyc & ive always wanted to host a fun hand car wash with my friends. you know hoses,buckets,short shorts & all that jazz, thing is we would keep the profits so its not a fundraiser thing so will we need a license for it ?

Making a Novel and I need critics?

I don't know if it's just yahoo formatting, but remember to start a new paragraph after every line of dialogue (just a personal pet peeve of mine). I like your descriptions and everything, you definitely have skill but remember if you become too descriptive you can lose the reader.

Media is OBSESSED w/ Casey Anthony. WHY?

This story just dominates the news now....I really don't understand the draw. Casey Anthony is no one of note. The story is entirely irrelevant, and is nothing but a gossipy he said she said. Why do news outlets cover it like 70% of the day when there are so many things of significance occurring in the world?

What manga/anime should I read/watch next?

you should watch and read naruto or soul eater for the comedy and action. if you want a series with good action romance and story i suggest high school of the dead but be warned its tv ma

What is wrong with my guestbook script?

you probably have settings in there that still refer to the original server directly, rather than using relative links, or the database version is different and the scripts need to be brought in line with the current one.

Does it sound like she's interested?

Sounds like she may be interested! I know I wouldn't just try to be friendly like that with someone I hardly know unless I liked them. :) good luck!

How do I handle my step children?

These are his kids and he should be looking after them. If he cannot do this, because of his work schedule, then he shouldn't have them staying with "you" for the summer. Also, don't agree with every thing he says. If you want to go to school now, go to school now. His kids have severe issues that makes caring for them difficult and if I were you, I wouldn't take this on myself.

Does this sound like an okay story?

It could be better with more detail of the character's appearance and personality. Also descriptions of objects or places would make it better but they are optional and the story is good enough.

What is the big deal about a female dating a younger male?

(any input about workplace relationships is not wanted and irrelevant to this question)A girl I work with is 21 and she had been flirting with me for a while and all my friends saw it. I figured she was out of my league and/or had a boyfriend. When I found out she was really wanting a man in her life I decided to ask her out. She said no because I am only 18. She also said if I was older she would definitely say yes.

Which guitar should I buy?

http://www.imagechunk.com/images/ar_2.jpg the one on the left or right? ( the price is irrelevant to me...)

Why am I angry at everyone lately?

Well maybe you need to get some smarter friends, because the ones you have are just plain DUMB DUMBS!

Am i in love or just infatuated?

I think you are in love with her. Unfortunately, I don't think she is in love with you. It sounds like she uses you as a shoulder to cry on. This may be a situation of unrequited love. It is very painful. You could try letting her know but it actually may be less painful for you to remain friends.

If god is all powerful and all knowing then why leave us with no evidence of his existence?

I don't understand how and why anyone would believe in an omnipotent, omniscient god when we are so irrelevant in the universe. Am I missing something?

Milly Dowler trial - irrelevant questions?

but, any good defence barrister would use the evidence of 'sad notes' written by milly herself and that she was distressed at finding her dad's collection of bondage pornography and the fact she had said, ''i'll be up there, or down there'' - heaven or hell ? and use that as a possible get out clause for bellfield, they played on this to suggest she was unhappy and may of killed herself. a courtroom is not a pleasant place to be for witness, defendant or victim but we can't censor what the barristers do and do not say.

I just dented my Macbook Pro, does my one year warranty still work?

unfortunently not sorry, apple care is only for internal issues or problems such as constant freezying of the screen and things like blown pixels, in your case it is a consumers fault, not the hardwares if you get me. i hope this helped

GIRLS: how do I know if she likes me? How do I ask her out?

I have deplorable self confidence after being bullied in middle school and rejected by every girl I have liked. I try not to give up, not to be so down on myself, but it's hard to feel like I'm attractive to girl and it seems like i'll never have a girlfriend. Currently, I'm a senior in high school, about to graduate, and there's a girl I talk to that I like a lot. She told me, in a very unclear way, that she wasn't interested in dating me, but she really makes it hard for me to believe her because of when she flirts with me and all. I have never had a girlfriend, but I feel like now I may have a chance with her. Either way, I want to hang out with her sometime again to tell her how I feel and to see where she's at mentally, but I am terrified of asking her out again after last time... How do I 1) get my self esteem and confidence up 2) muster up the courage to ask her out and 3) become better with girls? Thank You.

I broke up with him, now what?

I know where you're coming from. Best thing to do if he does try and talk to you, give him one-word replies. such as "yup, mhm, okay, cool, alright." He will feel bad, but that's what he gets for manipulating you. I personally wouldn't like to talk to an ex, especially if he did that to me. Don't get into full conversation with him, but leave it at something simple then just stop talking. I expect he is going to try and apologize, and tell you he loves you and how much you mean to him. Ignore it, he's only saying it out of guilt. Hope I helped! :)

What kind of car should I get under these circumstances...?

U relay want a a two door get a mitsubishi eclipse. Try a used lancer (4 door). Relibale a great milage

How do you muster up the courage to talk to women?

I'm terrible at talking to women I fancy and it's gotten to be extremely ridiculous lately with all the opportunities I've had with this one girl in particular. Any advice?

Does DBSK/SUJU/SHINEE/SNSD have facebook? (Kpop fans only)?

They might be a role-player. some people do that. anyway,i'm a HUGE kpop fan n let me tell you this,most kpop idols don't have facebook because they said facebook is dificult. Shinee n Snsd don't have ,i think,well,i'm sure of shinee because i'm a shawol. don't trust too much. they probably can get the real selca photos from idols twiitter or something..

Can a native speaker of English check structure and grammar of the sentences, thanks?

Six years ago I had love a girl who looks like boy, she wearing dark hair in a bob, eyes are very attractive. I fall in love at first sight with her the first time I clapped eyes on her. But I was very shy; there was a flush in my cheeks when she gave me a look. But I still muster the courage to beg she gave me her phone number. She open my hollow of the palm, wrote lightly in my hand. In a few years I returned to her city yet again, met her in the corner of the street, She looked back and smile to me, But it is a pity that we were no more not having no spoken dialogue.

What is your opinion of what Joe Rogan said about the Miz?

For those who don't know; Joe Rogan is the UFC commentator, comedian, actor, & fear factor host. I was listening to his Podcast: The Joe Rogan Experience #118 this mourning & about 48 minutes into the show he mentioned the Miz who was on fear factor awhile back. Joe said Miz was a "very cool guy" & "the most impressive athlete in the history of fear factor by far." What do you think of this? He also talked about Miz's stunt on the show & Miz's body weight workout.

Is this a good way to ask someone out?

Its straight to the point, which is good. It makes you sound interested in her. so go ahead and try it out

How do I cope with missing a crush?

Its time to man up bro, you have to find her, do it for yourself and her. shoot for the moon, and even if you miss you will land among the stars.

What does this song make you think of?

Music is subjective and down to personal experience. I think it's great that you feel like that about this song, you are obviously very thoughtful and creative.

Could you correct these sentence , please?

Popularity of drink is important to compare drinks. Tea popularity is less than coffee because most people like to drink coffee in the morning or after dinner .In fact , most restaurants and coffee shop the main drink is coffee. A few nations prefer Tea over coffee , Chinese , English ,and Indians. Whereas , Coffee popularity across the word . In Middle East, Coffee has different collar and storage From north where Turkey and Syria have strong black coffee, but ,in south of Middle East , coffee is green and light. And also In Middle east , people like to drink coffee in meeting , Wedding , parties , and coffee has meaning sometime . For example, When you are a guest and the host feel it's time to go home , The host offers coffee . Coffee is also popular in North and south Americas . Children like to drink coffee that makes coffee for all ages. Clearly, Coffee is number one drink around the world.

Black ops game joining problem?

when i try to join my friends lobby in black ops it say game session unavailable but he is still in the lobby waiting and it does that same thing to him when he trys to join me from invite or the friends list thing but it lets us join a lobby not hosted by one of us WHATS UP!??!?!?!?!?!?

What does this sort of dream mean? 10 points?

well normally when you fall asleep thinking of some thing or some 1 or some place you dream of it or them so most likely it means nothing

IS it too rude to say you want to marry.?

I grew up in a boarding school as a child because my parents felt that was the best way to guarantee a good life for me. I always grew up feeling empty inside and always wanted a family on my own some day. In my culture, we have arranged marriage but my parents are open minded towards dating someone and marrying as well. They are very understanding ( well most of the times). I did date in college but my last relationship was very abusive and it ended with my family getting involved to break it off. Ever since, then I dont think they have faith in my choice. I am now 23 and in medical school. I havent dated since my break up a year ago but I am hoping to go back out there. My mom and I were talking today and she casually mentioned that I have to get married at 25. I mustered up some courage and told her that I dont want to wait that long. I told her I am open to the idea of arrnaged marriage or I myself will go back to dating. My worry is, am I being fair in this.... I really dont think parents have a say when I should be married...I am tired of being single in medical school and I really want some companionship duing my clinicals. The thought of being alone another 2 years is scary to me. What do you think?

What should I major in?

You're only 13 if you wait a couple years until you are in high school you may have more insight into what you want to do with the rest of your life, so the best advice I can give to you is just to wait a couple years.

Should I show my mom Dr. Who?

I'm a mom who turned my teen daughter on to the Doctor and we've watched it together for years, now. It's one of the best shows in the world of Sci-fi and I would hope that if your mom wanted to spend some time with you, she'd love to watch it with you! Go ahead, do her a favor and show it to her!

"Direct" Democracy is only ONE TYPE of Democracy. Why do you think Fox News is so intent on convincing..?

Technically it is a "Representative Republic." It is slightly more democratic then it has been when the founders set it up though. People elect Senators now and blacks, women and non-landowners can vote. Just because you can vote doesn't mean it is democracy. You vote for a representative and they can vote for whatever the hell they wish whether they said they would or not.

Should I try talking to her? (somewhat long, needed to vent this out, please read)?

Ok, there's this girl that during the school year, I had a GIGANTIC crush on. Like, there has never been a girl that's made me feel like that before. I never had any classes with her, I only saw her in the hallways, but wow was she gorgeous. I know I can't really judge based on just looks, but she seemed to be somewhat interested in me too. We made eye contact a lot, and not like the eye contact you make with people as you walk past them. She'd always either turn around, or to her side and look at me. One time her and her friend kept turning around and looking at me as they were walking down the hall. Another time she kept turning around and looking at me on her way to her class, and before she went in, she turned around, looked at me, then walked in. This one time I saw her, and after our eyes met, I looked away, then I heard giggling. She's even smiled a few times, but being the shy, somewhat unconfident kid I am, I assumed it wasn't directed toward me. There was just a gut feeling that she might have felt the same way. I never mustered up the courage to talk to her, but on my last day of school, I actually smiled at her, but she didn't see me (I was in a huge line waiting to get my cap and gown). I added her on facebook (she was tagged in a friend's picture), and sent a private message to her. Here's what it said "Hey, we don't really know eachother, but we sometimes saw eachother during passing periods. I'd like to get to know you better, nothing is wrong with making new friends right? So, what's up?". It's been about a month since I sent it, and no reply. The thing though is that I think she might just ignore private messages altogether, because she has a lot of facebook friends, so she probably just wants to avoid spam. And if she read it and was creeped out, she probably would just take me off, but she hasn't. I've tried getting over her, but lately, I started dreaming about her again. I had a dream we were singing some love song to eachother (kind of weird hehe), and I had a dream where we went on a date together. I kind of want to try instant messaging her the next time she's online, but I get so nervous. What should I do? I don't really think I'm bad looking or anything http://a5.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash2/74820_172279329455415_100000200473356_627249_670274_n.jpg

Someone fantasise about suicide every day, but is unlikely to do it. Are they in a risk category for suicide?

Thoughts of suicide are called suicidal ideation.... it is not the same thing as being actively suicidal, however, they are passively suicidal and are at a much greater risk than the general population....

Does MSNBC have any TV hosts left?

Not really. I used to watch it but they went to far left. They're basically Fox for the far left. I'm liberal but I don't like it. When Olbermann, Matthews, Maddow and O'Donnell started criticizing religion and bashing every person they don't like I stopped watching. Turn it to CNN if you want real news. Well... what's left of real news.

How expensive of a house can I afford?

I am applying for a promotion. Lets say I get the promotion. I will make $150,000 (Approx. per year before taxes). I can make a $50,000 down payment. How expensive of a house can I COMFORTABLY buy? I live in the Miami Metro area if that makes a difference. Type of business: banking. (Last two may be irrelevant)

What do you think is mankind's greatest innate flaw?

I believe it is our insecurity, and therefore our inability to accept multiple truths. We have shed each others' blood over irrelevant questions of religion and politics, because our beliefs are so weak we feel they are threatened in some way by opposing beliefs held by other human beings. What do you think?

If invited to a friend's house for a party, should you assume you have to bring your own food?

I had a first time invitation to a friend's house for what she termed "a picnic." I arrived at the appointed time to find her husband grilling hamburgers and hot dogs. I didn't see my friend, but there was bowls and dishes of food out on the picnic table, so I grabbed a paper plate and started to load up when I heard her voice behind me saying, "What do you think you're doing?" I turned around to see her scowling at me. I told her I was helping myself. She snapped, "Yeah, to MY food!" Come to find out, she assumed I would bring my own food. She was willing to have her husband grill anything I brought that required it, but other than that, I was on my own. I told her that I assumed that, as being the host, she would have provided the food. She said I assumed incorrectly and how could I have thought she would have to bear the expense of feeding me. I had to leave since I had not brought anything and I'm now confused. Is it customary to assume you have to bring your own food to a barbecue if it is not mentioned in a verbal invitation?

Why is it so bad to be a Psychic- Intuitive?

Wouldn't having the Holy Spirit make you somewhat a psychic? You are tapping into another Spirit or power when you tap into the Holy Spirit. They sound like idiots for rejecting you like that.

Should I forgive her?

A while back, me and my close friend were fighting because she said some not so nice things to me. She was being an all around b**** so I just stop being friends with her. Now like 3 months later, summer break barely started and I had moved on with my life. This girl sends me a long text saying stuff like how lonely she is and how she tried to muster up courage to talk to me but couldn't. She also says this stuff like how much she really misses me as friend and how sincerely sorry she is for being a jerk to. I feel bad because she says stuff like she's been crying herself to sleep because of how horrible she feels. What should I do? Should I reply back? If so, what should I say? What she said to me really hurt me, but I kind of just want to start over and forgive her already.

Lets me cuddle with her in my bed then rejects me?

So last night my ex girlfriend came over. Two of my friends were over at my house as well and we all decided to go for a walk. It was night time so it was real dark. At one point in the walk she held on to my arm for awhile so she wouldn't fall in her heels and even for a bit when we got into the light. We stayed up all night and in the morning we were sleeping on my swing but she was at the end of it and i was at the top. then i asked her if she wanted to go to my bed and she agreed. when we got in bed she fell asleep. later in the morning i mustered up the gusts to put my arm around her and spoon/cuddle with her. she woke up, realized and was ok with it. she was even ok with me kissing her body. Yet, when i started rubbing up her leg she said my name in a bad tone implying i should stop. I completely refrained from touching her, turned on my side, and let out a big sigh. she got the point and seemed concerned. she seemed confused and kept asking me wats wrong and if i was ok. then she gives me a hug goodbye after sleeping a bit longer and that was it. What on earth is going on here?

So I've mustered up the courage. Now how to use it?

So I reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa… like this girl. ( If you look at a few of my other questions mentioning a girl, it's all about her.) And now I want to ask her out. How should I say it.. like "Do you wanna go out with me." or.. like idk. Just how do I put it, so that its not corny and it's clear. and if she says yes or no what do I say so theres not that akward "Soooo." Like I don't want her to finally be my gf and then we just feel weird and stuff.

For college applications, hosting a food drive counts as what?

Hmm it's first and foremost community service...then leadership. Is there a way to list all the roles? If not, deff put it under leadership...looks really good.

Can you host a .com domain at a different company than your registrar without doing a redirect?

Meaning, should I able to up update the whois record with my registrar company to add the hosting companies name servers? Or do I have to use the registrars dns and point to (or redirect) to the hosting company's IP address?

What would you do if your Step-mother-in-law sent you this email?

actual or not...... seems one uncouth was being chided by one overbearing snob......... however.... the points of manners are correct as stated.... generally appropriate most every where in "civilized" societies.... sadly children are not being taught as they once were...... in this case both involved were in violation

I got OCD and anxiety in the NAVY...?

I'm in the navy, been in over 2 yes. I think I got OCD and I got anxiety. It makes me late for watches and muster. Who should I talk to? Chaplain? What'll happen? Will they discharge me? Under what type? Thnx

Why is it so hard for me to make changes and let go of a bad lifestyle?

I have depression and compulsive thoughts- I cant seem to change, in my head i think i need to hit an even lower or lowest point before change, so i keep waiting and cant. Its not the right way but i cant get past it. Its like i want to feel as worst as i can first as motivation but thats not right. I dont seem to muster up another motivation to change but i want to! When i make a change i always cant manage to keep it because i always doesnt feel official to me which is my compulsive thoughts. Dont know what to do?- I see someone and take medication but in a way it has to be me that does the change.

Cat Deeley's SYTYCD dress 6/30/11?

From the 6/30/11 episode of so you think you can dance, where was the hosts dress (colorful and sheer material) from or brand or designer. Or links to similar dresses? thanks so much!!

What would you do if some elderly relative yelled at your kids?

She's cranky. Just see if you can just have your uncle/aunt without the mom. Be honest and say "would you like to come over without her because i don't think she enjoys my sons company"

Is Gold Coast City (Queensland, Australia) worthy of being selected as Host for the 2018 Commonwealth Games?

Would like this Q to be responded to initially as a survey, with a simple 'Yes' or 'No' answer, then with qualifying comment if one has something substantiating to add without being irrelevant to the Q.

What's the Best way to Watch the perfect host movie online free?

I like this movie very much. So i just want to Watch the perfect host movie online free please help and tell me the best way to Watch the perfect host movie online free......

Need some help in understanding life...?

One thing all girls like is for a guy to be confident! Dont think you are going to mess up before you even try. I know this is easier said then done, but if you are always too afraid of failure, you will eventually just give up. And who cares if you are strange. People these days are so into fitting in and sticking to the norm, but being different from others gives you a uniqueness about your personality. you seem like a sweet guy and im sorry it is so hard for you to meet friends. you should try to get into volunteering to meet people or any social events. Find something else you enjoy doing so you can become friends with people who share that interest. Join a gym; this is a healthy hobby, and a great way to meet people. Good luck and I hope this helps!

Critique my first chapter. Would you keep reading? What genre do you think it is?

I think its fantasy. It is very well written, its just not my genre. But fantasy fans would probably like it. Well done!

Does anyone know of an organization called "Proms for Moms"?

I head about and organization like this on TV and I can't remember the website address. Basically it's where a bunch o moms where their old prom dresses and host a prom and then the procees and dresses go to an charity or organization of their choosing I am interested in hosting one of these events

What % of Europeans with higher education become professionals in the field they studied?

I was told a long time ago, that more than half of the university-graduated Europeans (EU), build careers on professions irrelevant to their studies. However, I couldn't find relevant statistics or other information. Can anyone help?

How to get rid of fleas without collateral damage, by my self?

============= you need an exterminator and you should get this done soon ... those fleas are in your carpet and places you do not know .... it is not a job that you can do yourself and I am not an exterminator ... had the problem 40 years ago and a pro fixed it (( had to get out out of the house for two days and then open for one more ... probably better methods today ...

How do you link multiple servers?

I have an ftp server and website (hosted on one server currently) and I wanted to allow users to access files on more than just the one server through my site and external ip address which is currently using port forwarding. How do I do this? I want to in an essence link the two together.

Looking for some good romance manga.?

Try Girls Saurus. Harem and funny. not a lot of the sappy stuff, is a shonen, but it's kinda on the pervy side don't know if that will bug you.

90's nick halloween show?

there was a (reality) show on nickelodeon during halloween in either the late 90's or very early 2000's and it was a bunch of kids trying to find clues about what happened to this boy that used to go to a camp where they are looking for the clues. and in the end it turns out that he had a twin or something but one of them had fallen down a well at the camp and died. and it was hosted by i believe a british woman. if anyone has any idea what this show was called id really like to know cause i can not remember.

I don't know how to join LAN rooms in NFS Most Wanted?

In Game Ranger (software to play online) after the host clicks "start" the game starts automatically & searches for LAN servers...but it does not view anything...what should i do after that....any one can help please...!!!

Is school in Korea really difficult?

I've heard that the education in Korea is pretty bad. I can't tell you much about it, because whenever I visit, it's either during summer vacation, or I just choose not to go, so, I've never actually gone to school there. Korea is a great place to go, but I don't know if it's the best place to go to school. If school doesn't overwhelm you, then the Korean language might overwhelm you. Personally, I don't think you should attend school in Korea. Good luck! Hope I helped!

What should I do? Am I being stalked?

So, I was at Best Buy the other day because I was about to get my own MacBook Pro. When I asked for assistance this rather friendly looking man came over to me and starting helping find what I was looking for. Once he helped me pick it out, he ripped off the tag on his shirt and revealed a pentagram. I tried to run but he took me to some back room that was pitch black. He ripped off his clothes and tried to impregnate, me saying "You shall make a nice host for my demonic younglings" I managed to grab a sharp object next to me and stab him into the eye and escape. I ran out of BestBuy with my new MacBook Pro and my clothes torn. The people just stared at me like I was crazy. When I was home I started hearing things like demonic laughter and starting receiving nasty text messages from some guy named Lucifer. What do I do guys?

I need help concerning friends and myself?

Sounds like everyone seems to put you off as an outcast or a 'non-fit to society', you're not the only one, just to be clear. People don't view you as very social, and you're not, sadly, unless you do something about it, that's all that people will view you as. Stop seeing your councillor if you feel he/she is just making it worse. Find someone with the same problems as you, befriend him/her and stop being with people who just make you feel uncomfortable. And I have a question for you, is your brother younger than you or older?

Why do we get so many of these irrelevant "Dear Abby" teen love-life drama questions on R&S that have.....?

Last time I checked the dating and relationship section, no ones questions were getting answered. So they come here to have them answered.

Does anyone notice in ouran host club that...?

someone slips on a banana peel like every episode? and tamaki is the voice of edward Elric from fullmetal alchemist?

Anyone agree that imposement of modern race/cultures/etc with past ones is a dangerous distortion of history?

Your thoughts on how cultures and people change over the centuries is interesting. Ancient European culture was pretty well scrambled by the Germanic invasions of the late Roman era, and every country you mention, France, Italy, and England in particular, were drastically changed by the cultural influence of the German invaders. Ancient cultural traits can be recognized in every one of these countries, but each is a conglomeration of mixed cultures in today’s world. But it is not valid to put too much emphasis on past glory or failures. We are today what we make of ourselves.

Do I Have PCOS(Polycystic ovarian syndrome)?

It doesnt sound like you have it at all. You would most likely have abdominal pain from the cysts as well as many other symptoms if you had PCOS. It's really easy to read a list of symptoms on the internet and then relate it to yourself and think that you have the condition, but generally you would be quite aware that something was really wrong if you had it. If you have any abnormal symptoms let your doctor know so that they can work out if anything is wrong.

Breakkkuppp! pleasee helpp?

so like last night I broke up with my boyfriendd for 5 months. and like I was thinking about it alot before and like i finally mustered up the courage to do it. well like idkk like i dont think i want to go out with him but like im still sadd and crying alot and idkk what this means :(

Looking for some good romance manga.?

Try Girls Saurus. Harem and funny. not a lot of the sappy stuff, is a shonen, but it's kinda on the pervy side don't know if that will bug you.

Whats the worst party you have even been to or hosted?

I went to a part once where EVERY SINGLE person was throwing up all over the girls brand new carpet. The carpet was white and her mom was coming home the vry next day... not good.

What do you think of this poem, should it be published?

It's a great poem but there is just one line that I am not sure about 'To but us time when forces gathered'. I am not sure what you mean by 'To but us' but the rest of the poem is brilliant and yes why not try to get it published. Good luck.

Is my husband over reacting?

Last night I returned from work to find my husband asleep on the couch with my 2 kids standing over him. When I asked what they were doing they popped up real quick smiling all too cheerily, my boy hiding something behind his back. Then I saw my husbands missing right eyebrow. Turns out they had found mommy's veet and wanted to test it out. When Jack (my husband) finally woke up and saw he screamed like a little girl and held his hand over his eyebrow like he had been shot and fell to the ground rolling around screaming. He ended up taking 4 days off of work to "heal himself" and everyday when I come home I find him naked as a jaybird covered in blankets from the tallest hair on his head to his toes. All of the time. He walks to the kitchen like that, then back to the bed room. No clothes. About 6 blankets. At first it was a little entertaining, but now he hasn't been out of the bedroom excluding the kitchen, and he's going crazy and popping out scaring me and our kids in his blanket attire. Did I mention he was a radio host? NO ONE EVEN SEES HIM!!! He is annoying me and I feel like I married a child. How do I get him to get over this and stop acting like he's been mutilated for life?

Can you give me some Romance and Comedy Animes?

how about you go and appreciate the sitcoms and movies that have real, live actors in them instead of these creepy anime/manga stuff?

Why Do Same Sex Marriage fans Ignore the Academic arguments of Arkes, Kurtz etc and drone on about religion?

Because conservatives don't present the academic arguments of Arkes, Kurtz etc, they just drone on about how its ruining the sanctity of marriage, and they call it wrong with no justification backing their claims.

Final fantasy xiv patching problems?

Ive installed the game and the in game updater isnt working, upon research i find out this is common, now people say to try and use torrents to download these files. i tried using the torrent method but the downloads just sit there as if there were no seeds. does anyone have these files up to date and is hosting them somewhere? please email me at pintzow62690@live.com if you play ffxiv and are willing to sit through this and help me.

No sound on computer. =(?

You can download a software on the internet and install it on your computer. I had the same problem a few years back too.

Have you ever been dismissed for cause at a job? question help?

If you got an honorable discharge and have the DD214 to prove it thats all they have to know. You will be fine.

How do I get my dad to treat me better...?

you need to tell your mom this, and friends or not what he's doing to you and saying to you is verbally abusive and physically abusive and sexually abusive. he's also an alcoholic from what it sounds like, i've seen this happen to friends, he's one step away from beating you for saying the wrong thing or sexually assaulting you in a drunken fit. You can tell yourself it won't happen but it will my suggestion is leave move in with your mom for about a month make sure your horses are registered with you and you have whatever paper work you need to prove it, if he sells them sue him, if he neglects them, call the animal police or the aspca. but if you choose to stay with him keep in mind if you are outdoors it's considered public conversation so you can record it with out him knowing it and it's legal and admissible in court. also you can stop cleaning up after him keep doing your chores but let it be known you aren't his maid your his daughter and let him know that he's the worst father ont he planet. and a decent father wouldn't treat a daughter like this and next time he makes a comment about his drinking being the only reason ur alive tell him and the only reason you are still alive is because i have to be 18 to own a gun. don't EVER let anyone treat you like this if you do you it'll seem normal to you and when you meet a guy you will think it's ok to be treated like this and it isn't and if you can keep your mom on the phone when he starts to act like this and tell her to listen you are going to pretend like you aren't on the phone with anyone and when he starts it up you have a witness or get on the phone with a friend immediatly witnesses are always great. If you let this go it will escalate to him beating you assaulting you possibley raping you and killing you. do NOT take this THIS IS ABUSE BOTH VERBAL MENTAL AND SEXUAL. if you have to kiddo, go to womens shelter they will help with legal help getting to and from school, keeping you safe and if he tries to find you or suddenly don't show up you can instruct them to call the police because something probably happened. it's ok it's not your fault it's his you didn't do ANYTHING wrong he did. he's a bad father and a bad person.

Work dress code, question of jeans.?

I think your workplace wants you to wear these kinds of pants:a href="http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/category.do?cid=6731" rel="nofollow"http://bananarepublic.gap.com/browse/cat…/a because they don't have rivets and are more professional.

Have you ever felt a presence that something was there?

9 out of 10 times it's actually a presence I experience this alot in fhe same way and I had a professional cOme and said there wasa presense

RHH: Buy or Sell, the following terms are misused/overused a lot on here...?

Buy. I wish people would just cut that stuff out and enjoy the music. I don't care if it's made by a guy who makes music by himself in his basement in a small, suburban town in Wales, and has sold less than 10 copies of his music in his entire life, if it's good music, I don't care.

How do I know if I'm getting moved up to a lead hose at outback steakhouse?

What shifts do hosts normally get when they're about to be moved up to lead host? Or, if you're a restaurant manager or something like that, what shift do you give your better hosts? open, mid, close? THANKS!

Girl help, please ):?

So i kinda like this girl who i barely know, we study in the same school and i am one year older than him...I look forward to her tweets daily and is trying to muster my courage to even talk to her online...how should i talk to her, even online? and how should i eventually work my way into talking to her in school?

The Democratic Congress that took office in 2007 crashed the economy?

Naaah... The Republicans know that people have short memories, and if they spout the same incorrect bumper sticker slogans long enough, they know some people will start to believe them... They don't want the credit for the shape we're in, so they lie... Nothing new there...

Did I do the right thing----about a crazy b*tch.?

ya you did the right thing. But next time test her craziness offer sex :D ( won't hurt to try) but in the end leave her and ignore her shesh. . .

Do I have Turret's Syndrome? (Doctors Please)?

There are 2 types of tics. One is Simple tics, such as eye blinking, and the other one is Tourette Syndrome. Tourette Syndrome is made of multiple motor tics (brief, intermittent, repetitive, nonrhythmic, unpredictable movements), and/or vocal tics (such as sniffing, snorting, involuntary vocalization). Some people, which very rare can also have Coprolalia (compulsive utterance of obscenities). All these tics may be associated with OCD, ADHD or mood disorders. They worsen with stress and go away during sleep. Based on what you said, it does sound like you have Tourette syndrome. I would recommend that you see a psychiatrist. There are many medications that are very helpful in controlling these tics, even for children.

Is a wife who refuses to have sex with her husband being unfaithful?

all I can tell you to do is grab you some dirty magazines or a movie and get some lube out and take care of your own needs until she comes around...either that or divorce her

Christians: Does God add time into his foreshadowings and prophecies of Messiah, or is time irrelevant to Him?

And if time is irrelevant to Him, why are His holy days "moedim," which means "appointed times?" If He doesn't want us to concern ourself with time, why is He so meticulous with time in Scripture, even listing one chain of genealogy by years and in listing the years of judges and kings? Why did He proclaim 490 years (70x7 weeks) before the first coming of Messiah? If God listed the times throughout Scripture, and warned the people with time....such as 400 years servitude to Egypt and 70 years captivity to Babylon.....why would He change when it comes to the Apocalypse?

Since Palin is such a whack job,why do people who don't like her pay so much attention to her?

Why do they care if she is going to run for president or not? Why do serious news host and journalist that are not on Fox News still refer to her when discussing political events.

Do I need more schooling?

I am trying to get a job as a ward clerk at my local hospital. However, I looked at the requirements and it says "Courses in data entry and computer systems preferred." When they say data entry, I assume they mean Excel, which I started using in middle school. As for computer systems, I am very familiar with them (I am only 18 so I was grew up around computers.) Will they take these factors into consideration, or will they dismiss them as irrelevant and tell me to get more schooling?

What will happen? I think I got scammed: http://searchrewardsurvey.com/go.html?

I typed in google.com in the url bar and it brought me to the award site that I assumed was hosted by google. It said that I was a selected winner for a free macbook air, iphone or ipad by answer a little survey. I chose the ipad and answered 3 questions like male/female, where I am taking this survey, and my email address and cell phone #. After that it proceeded me to the next part that had three steps to confirm my phone number and email i guess? That was when I looked at the url bar and saw that this survey did not even have the word "google" anywhere in the url so I just closed it. What's the worst that can happen with just information I gave them? They can't steal money or anything from me can they? Will the most I get is like spam email, text messages and/or phone calls?

All the men out here are yucky. What am I going to do?

Wait until you move to NYC. Then you won't have to worry about long distance relationship or not moving because he doesn't want to.

Are the police and soldiers the new middle class?

Republicans want to take away every workers pensions and benefits except for soldiers and police. With everyone competing for a low crappy wage and no pensions or healthcare, you need a lot more soldiers and police and you need them on your side.

Need some help and advice with this...?

I once heard and have practiced this in my own life, if you love something, set it free. If it was meant to be it will come back to you. This has been very true in my own personal experience. I too have a partner who I fell deeply in love with after a long period of just friendship, no sex involved--just friends. We fell in love and had a rough time due to various issues. I finally let my partner go and moved on with my life. Once I attempted to move on and stopped obsessing over my ex, he pursued me because we were probably meant to be. This may or may not be the case with your ex, but I definitely think that if you begin finding other things to do than thinking about her everyday, perhaps a project in your house, school, a new business, a club where you can meet new people, etc., that you may be suprised someday to find that your ex would like to begin a new relationship with you. Yes, starting over from the beginning and letting all of the past issues stay in the past. My best advice to you is let her go, do not contact her, make yourself so busy that you do not think about her so much, and most important, make yourself happy!!!!!!

Original idea for a movie what do you think?

I'll just give the synopsis. I'll try to make it brief. So it's about this nerdy guy who is madly love with the head cheerleader at his high school set in the year 2511. He knows he has no shot with a girl like her but he feels like he at least has to go for it. So he finally musters up the courage to ask her out and she says I WOULDN'T DATE YOU IF YOU WERE THE LAST GUY ON EARTH!! He is humiliated, so much so that he drops out of school and runs away hides from the world. He settles himself in the heart of the amazon rain forest where after several years he goes insane and begins experimenting with gene splicing so that he can create the first giant spider-octopus hybrid that spews gamma radiation from it's tentacles. He trains these creatures to wipe out every guy on earth besides himself of course. He successfully does so after an intense battle and finds his true love, but it turns out shes a lesbo. So wacks the ***** he just ***** a bunch of sluts and repopulates the Earth, but then an asteroid comes out of nowhere and the Earth is completely destroyed. But it turns out it was all an hallucination from a coma cause it turns out the girl had a boyfriend and he beat the **** out of him after he asked out the girl.

How can I get over my stage fright?

I'm in an advanced class for Language Arts and Social Studies, and we have three separate plays. One is the Imaginary Invalid (it's French if you don't know what I'm talking about) a male Julius Caesar, and an Amazonian version of Julius Caesar. I tried to get a part in the Imaginary Invalid, mostly because I do better in comedies rather than dramas. Of course, my stage fright got the better of me, so I got put in the Amazonian Julius Caesar. Me and another person are the Soothsayer together. This is where the crappy part comes in. Not only do I suck with dramas, can't make some witch-type voice, but I'm too afraid to even say it out loud to the people I'm acting with! I think in my mind "I'm going to do this, I'm gonna make this play work!" but my body won't do it. I'm scared, and they all try to encourage me, and say I need to be louder, but I just can't!!!!!! My L.A. teacher said that she liked the difference in our voices, because the person I'm working with can muster the courage to actually say it loudly to them, but I just barely murmur it. I haven't a clue why I'm scared to say it, but I just am! Maybe if I asked if I could whisper it loudly, but I think that would sound kind of bad... What do you think? Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :(

What time would be right to ask her out to be my gf?

So i've met this girl who im actually so into. I met her at school, and mustered up the courage to ask her out. She is really beautiful, funny, smart, etc. We been on a couple of dates and i always have the best time with her. I feel alive with her and she is soo fun to be around. So we shared our first kiss about 2 days ago. I know we should keep dating more before i ask her, but when would be the right time? I really like her, and im pretty sure she feels the same. any advice?

CAN I LEFT HEAVY THINGS WHILE PREGNANT?

Iam 11 weeks pregnant, and I work at a restaurant as a host. I carry this medium size basket that has a lot of menus and lots of caryons its kinda heavy. I picked it up from the ground to a TV Trey it wasnt far from it. Is that bad?

How to get rid of an insect-phobia by myself?

I did this it took me six years - I was intent on making a relationship with spiders because they frighten me to the point where I could kill them and I never wanted to do that - My first step was to name all parts of the fear and then own it all as mine and not the insects fault - Most of my fear was the speed at which they move I started to read up on insects and how amazing they are as life forms - so successful & I started to like them at a distance then I made myself tolerate them in the same room - its hard but I took it a step at a time - I think I could have made it a shorter time if I had got help but it was interesting how I made progress - I wouldn't say I'd keep insects as pets but I tolerate their presence now (and they tolerate mine)

How to better word this clustered up sentence? (Writing help, please +10PointsBEST/ANSWER ASAP/thmbs + Points)?

Seeking to expand financially, I decided that my next venture would be a new luxury transportation service. The first limousine that was purchased came from an independent company in Los Angeles, about 3 hours from our location. I underwent an extensive licensing process through the California Public Utilities Commission (CPUC). The process took a total of 6 months.

Do you think it would be possible for a Deity to do just ONE ACT in human history that would be sufficient..?

NO! ( Did i surpass the sentence length? )AHH, hell forget the sentence length! No gods or devils exist anywhere outside of ones properly brainwashed mind! PROVEN FACT!!!

Cat Deeley's Dress from SYTYCD?

Does anyone know where cats ( the host of so you think you can dance) dress from the 6/30/11 episode was from or the brand/designer of it? It was a colorful kind of sheer dress. Thanks:)

What goes on at a fun party?

My wife wants to host a fun party at our house and says I can't be there. I'm just curious what goes on at one.

Do Iranian people tend to party alot?

My GF comes from an Iranian Jewish background and she and her family tends to host parties or go to parties sometimes to often. I was wondering if it's true for other (but not all) Iranian people. If it's true, why do they tend to do that? I've been wondering on this for some time now.

I'm worried about getting a bad teacher?

I'm going into third year at secondary school (Scottish) and the school is tiny-only two history teachers. I had one in first year who literally spent all the time talking about things completely irrelevant, and then would give us a test, which I failed. In second year we got a teacher who explains the work well, asks you what you would like to revise before tests, and we all did brilliantly-I got the top marks. But I'm worried about which teacher I'll get after the Summer-I really can't do well with the first teacher, I need a teacher who actually explains the work and has high expectations-what do I do if I get the bad teacher?

I love my boyfriend with everything I have, but I'm miserable and frustrated with our relationship.?

My boyfriend and I have been in love for three years now. We went out in high school for six months and fell in love, but we broke up because we couldn't spend much time together for reasons irrelevant to my problem. We were broken up for a year and a half before we got back together last year October. He wanted this relationship more than I did. We live in the Virgin Islands, but I go to school in Pittsburgh, so we're away from each other 3-4 months at a time, with only Christmas and Summer to see each other. This Summer will be my last time home for a while and that means seeing him too, but he doesn't seem worried about that. He works a lot and barely has time to spend with me. When he's not working, he's hanging out with his friends, and teaching martial arts at his dad's school. When we are together, it's once or twice every two weeks over at his place and he falls asleep because he's so tired from everything he's doing. Also we text all the time but when we talk on the phone every few days, he says some of the meanest things sometimes. I'm not one to hold back my feelings, and I never attack him. Whenever I have a problem I go to him and tell him how I feel. But he always tells me he has no idea what I'm talking about. He shuts me down and makes me feel like I'm crazy. When he talks to me like that, he's joking, he says, and I take things too seriously sometimes. He tells me he loves me everyday and I believe him, but I don't see it as often as I should. I give him love, support in everything he does, never ask him for anything, and I never crowd him. I give him all the space in the world. Again, I don't want to attack him or always tell him what he's doing wrong. Who wants that kind of pressure? But I don't know what else to do. We do nothing fun together. We have good times but never outside of house. When we did go out which was once at the beginning of May, he kissed me and hugged me and held my hand and everything so I know he's not ashamed of me. I've been thinking of proposing a break between us to give us time to think about where we want to be and if it's a good idea to be together. I love him. I do, but I can't continue to cry all the time and feel so frustrated with our relationship. With him, right now, I'm so miserable, but I know without him, I'll be twice as miserable so what do I do? Do I go ahead and propose the break, or do I stay, talk to him about it again and try to work it out AGAIN? Please help me. I'm so in love with him and don't want to lose what we him.

RHH- This is the official RHH Section user Awards?

i won ! i won ! First, i like to thank Escobar for giving me the courage to stand up for what i believe in. I'd also like to thank kid cudi for giving me the inspiration to keep doing what i do. And last but not least, Chloe Moretz, if it werent for her pics that i fap to every night, i would've committed suicide a long time ago

Ex is suing me for child support he claimed was overpaid?

My son is 17. Last year, I sent him to live with his father out of state, due to drug use and the inability to lawfully get him into rehab. Despite my telling my ex that he would still owe back child support, but it would end up going back anyways to him (because of my new child support order), he still thought his child support arrears would be dropped, because my son was now living in his home. I just received notice from my county court office, that he wants for me to sign an enclosed document, saying that he satisfied his back child support (that has the current balance of $3500), but that he also wants to be paid back another $4,000, because he believes that his $300 a month court-ordered amount was set too high a few years ago, causing an overpayment. (Not only was he receiving unemployment, but he was also working under the table. Unfortunately, the latter cannot be proven, but with state unemployment, child support based their court order on that calculation.) He claims that he now needs this $7,500 to be applied to our son, so that he has money to take care of him until he turns 18. I think this is crazy. There were months, where he didn't even pay child support, and now, he just wants to get off the hook of owing me the back pay (since I had to do it all myself), and since he realizes that he can't declare bankruptcy on this. Should I be concerned? Or should I relax, because as I said, it seems crazy. After all, I'm not working, I'm married, have another child who lives with me and yet I manage to pay my court-ordered child support to my son on time. My son's father, has no other children, and I remember times where I was unable to pay for school pictures, and asked if he could spare $20, and he said he didn't have it. I would then find photos posted on social networks, where he and his girlfriend went on vacation to Bermuda. (I wish that I could bring these photos in as evidence, but unfortunately, I was told they would be irrelevant to the case.)

Romantic, love triangle anime?

InuYasha has a really good love triangle check it out it is a grat anime even if the art is a little outdated.

Spikes of Lag in Minecraft..! HELP!?

It may be your internet going nuts, or even the recent update to 1.7_01. It's still pretty buggy, so I'm holding out on the update. =/

Could there be a paradox of the big question who created God if time doesn't exist?

God probably came from God's parents . . . Image and likeness . . . Creator of heaven and earth as e pluribus enum via a big bang . . . Formed in love . . .Time varies . . . Natural spirit is of accunulative knowledge rather then solely chronilogical . . . And time of God is as one day to 1000 yrs earthly per scripture . . .

If these candidates are the best they have to offer, should the Republican Party just dissolve itself?

Palin, Bachmann, Gingrich, Pawlenty, Paul, Santorum, Cain. Are these people ******* kidding? Can the GOP really be taken seriously if they can't even muster up a single legitimate Presidential candidate?

I was thinking about hosting a public drunken kickball game, and I wanted to not get arrested?

How would I set up this up with the city? I was gonna advertise it as drunken kickball, then just have a normal sigh there. In minnesota there isn't drinking aloud in parks, so I figure people will do it anyways or do it at home. Is there any way to make drinking legal at a park for a event like this?

Texting my crush....what should i do?

re asking...ive like this girl for awhile now...were not to close ive talk to her a few times in person, had her laughing a bunch tho...she added me on facebook we would talk here and there nothing special...well a couple weeks ago i asked her question about school, she sent me a message that she was deleting her facebook and told me to text her..so i did, we had a small convo about my question...a week later i just mustered the courage to just text her more casual but instead of just saying "hey whats up"...i text her a joke she responded right away we texted all day just teasing each other...now i know this doesn't mean she likes me or anything but atleast im getting closer to her...my question is after this what should i do the last thing i want to do is be creepy or needy...so should i let her text me now or should i wait a couple days...any advice would be great???

Am I reading into things too much? Are these the first signs?

Hmmmmm...... well??? i don't really know what she could have meant by it could be a number of different things but a ;lot of girls are insecure about dating someone younger than them. i wouldn't worry about it too much. Sorry this is kind of crappy advice but i don't really know for sure what she meant. Hope it all turns out well in the end <3

I really like this girl, how do i go about it to land this dream girl?

What is your problem? Sounds like things are going good. Send her a text saying you can't stop thinking about how pretty she looked when you were dancing. It's sweet and it's true and she will be flattered. Then when she responds tell her you want to see her again asap.

Custody of children help?

My bf has 2 children from a previous relationship but has been having problems getting visits with the children because the mom has an irrelevant issue with me I guess. So she holds the kids above his head until all attention is directed toward her. He basically has to lie to her about me just for him to see them which is just very immature. We're now talking about taking this matter to court so at least no matter what he has rights to the children whether she's on pms mode or not. Where would we start? Funds are short but help is needed.

Implantation question..please read!?

I have been actively ttc for 6months. My period came early this month. Usually comes on the 18th(ish), it came on the 10th, finished on the 12th. Last week on the 21st, i noticed spotting. Started out very light pink, and was only a little bit whenever i peed. It ended on the 23rd and by that time was sort of brownish, but still not alot. Not even enough to need a panty liner. I had slight cramps during those days..nothing like "period cramps". More like a dull ache around my lower abdomen. A few days after that, i noticed CM with streaks of blood. Only a few times and it went away. And now im having white discharge whenever i pee..sometimes i feel wet, or think i am, but its really just the discharge.. I get nauseous during the day, but nothing comes up.. and my nails have been growing really fast which is odd because i usually bite them.. Anyways, that stuff is irrelevant i guess. I just feel so confused because ive never bled twice in one month or had CM tinged with blood.. Thanks for your input :)

Why do homosexuals say god hates them?

My best friend is gay and he says God hates him. He is Christian like his mother and she used to beat him for being gay like it was a choice. He has been taught for years that no matter how much he prays he will go to hell for being gay. I feel bad because I can't get through to him that God would never hate him for that.

Personal debate on which branch to go into(Army/Marines). Need experienced opinions, mainly spec-ops or grunt.?

Hello to all who reads this.I'm seventeen years old and have been debating for years which branch to go into after high school. My main interest is Special Operations(CCT, Seals, Rangers, etc.) but I've narrowed it down to either Army or Marine Corp. The reason I'm not considering CCT or SEALS in this is because those both require 20/20 vision, which I lack, and get lasik is a long drawn out of choosing another mos, where I can wear glasses, and then once I get to my permanent duty station request lasik where once my vision is squared away I can go and request to go to my ideal profession. The drawbacks to that is I'm stuck doing a job I didn't intent on doing and there is only a chance that lasik will be granted, or I get deployed and never really get the chance to put in an application. The other option is to scrounge up the money to get the money to buy lasik myself (which could take months if not years), get the surgery, and then wait another 6 months or a year for the military to say I'm healed enough and then I could try-out. I lack the patience to want to go either of those routes so I look to the Army and the Marine Corp to satisfy my needs. In the Marine Corp I'm currently looking at the mos of 0321(Reconnaissance Man). I'm aware that one can't get that mos at the beginning and that I would have to choose another in case I fail. If my local Marine didn't lie to me to go recon the dudes that look for applicants go to SOI(School of Infantry) and they ask "Anyone want to try-out for recon." If you say yes they out you into recon indoc where if you pass they take you out of SOI and put you into the Recon pipeline. I'm aware BRC(basic reconnaissance course) is one big suck-fest, and again I'm going off of what my recruiter told me, it's basically BUD/S(basic underwater demolition training) except of wearing a wet-suit you wear combat gear and carry a ruck. On the Army side of things I was considering trying to go Ranger. I understand that Ranger School is a combat leadership school and won't make you a member of the 75th ranger regiment. If my research is correct to go 75th I need to get an Option 40 in my contract, I was also thinking of mos 11B(Infantryman), 13F(Fire Support Specialist), or 68W(Combat Medic). If my understanding is correct RASP (ranger assessment and selection program) is again one big suck-fest, but I can't seem to find any memoirs or actual testimonies of what actually happens during RASP. To be a Ranger is more of a challenge than it is to become one if research is right. My Army recruiter didn't know jack-**** about Rangers and assumed I didn't either so If you have info on that let me know. Now for the debate, the famous question. Army vs. Marines. I seriously don't care about anyone's personal bias and any comments like "Army is for ******* go Marines" and vise versa is irrelevant and unwanted. I'm looking for a challenge, adventure, and self-reliance in the wild and I'm aware both branches can provide. My real concern is which gets more time out in the field. The last thing I want is to be stuck in garrison while the other guy is kicking-doors and doing his job. The other concern is if I wish to make a career out of this is the levels of advancement. With Army there is Special Forces and Delta and I'm aware Marines have Force Recon and MARSOC. If anyone has any good info on that it would be appreciated. My Marine recruiter told me MARSOC is force recon ecxept under SOCOM command and there what he called "long-haired marines." My true want from the comments below is the personal experience of someone who's been through one of these things, or both even better. First-Account info is what I seek. Thank you for even reading this, I apologize for the length of this.

Do you think I could be an author?

OF COURSE!!!!! really anyone can be an author it just takes a ton of hard work, creativity, more then a few sleepless nights, and lots of patience. If you have a story in your head, for heaven sakes SHARE!!! By the way your story so far is awesome. Just don't give up and don't be discouraged by the evil red pen of critism. :)

How do I contact the search engines to change my site listings from .html to .php?

my website is with a new host and i used their site builder for a site that was already hosted before and already in google, yahoo, bing etc now my search engine listings are incorrect because they all end with .html and my new pages are .php HELP!!

Procrastination is one hell of a drug?

I've got two projects due tomorrow and can't seem to muster enough will to start them. Also, my electric airsoft gun won't stop firing so if anyone might know how to fix it, please inform me.

Is it stupid to take Aramaic?

I am going to major in Computer Science/Engineering when I begin my undergraduate studies in California next year. I asked my mother if I may take the Aramaic language series, and she told me no, because it is stupid and economically irrelevant. She questioned my maturity and judgment because of my inquiry. Would it be harmful to my future or a waste of my time there to take these classes? I am paying for it, by the way, with a combination of federal aid and some minimal, low interest loans.

Best web host for Wordpress blog , iPage or Bluehost !?

Among these 2 which do you think is better for a wordpress based website. I read a lot of bad reviews about iPage yet good ones also. same goes with bluehost and im not able to decide. Pls Help !

Need help with finding someone who died a POW in Civil War?

I have ancestry.com free through work I can email you the pictures of the documents if you want. my email is william92147@yahoo.com. The POW roster is a little hard to read but since you've been researching him it should make more sense. I'll look for census stuff too.

Is it ok to be lazy, I cant seem to find anything that I'd like to do for the rest of my life.?

I grew up on the beaches of the warm east coast of South Africa. Some people say that i'm too relaxed, my Dad says if I were any more relaxed, I'd fall asleep. I have a 'cruisey', laid back nature, appropriately, I have the over grown hair and surf board to compliment it. I'm going to be 25 in november and I have an honors degree in graphic design. My problem is that I can't seem to muster any sort of enthusiasm for anything other than what I want to do. I've always been one to enjoy the simpler things in life (I mean things like surfing, good friends, good music etc etc, NOT weed or other crap like that), but lately it's dawned upon me that perhaps i'm just stone cold lazy. I'm not gonna beat around the bush with this, I do not like work, unfortunately, all the things I do enjoy are more like hobbies, there's not much chance at making a living out of them. And i'm not particularly talented at any one thing, so, not much option to specialize. So I don't really know what to do with myself. Please if you don't have anything helpful or insightful to say, I would appreciate that you keep your comments to yourself, because if you're thinking i'm just a lazy beach bum who needs to to grow up and take responsibility for himself, then believe me, you wouldn't be telling me anything I haven't heard a thousand times before. Thanks to all of you who actually did have a worth while comment or suggestion.

Do monks setting themselves on fire prove that pain is an illusion?

There have been several cases of self immolation amongst Buddhist monks over the centuries, and in most cases the monks sit completely still and silent as they are burning to death. Does this prove that physical pain, if not an outright illusion, can be sufficiently reigned in by one's mind so as to be irrelevant? Do we have the choice of never feeling (physical) pain again?

I'm hosting a sleepover tonight with two of my best friends. Any fun suggestions?

We usually stay up till 3 or 4 in the morning eating snacks, playing the WII, watching movies, playing boardgames, and talking. We are Girls ages 16-18. Yes, I know, LOL. Anything fun besides what we already do that you can suggest? Thanks. I have 4 hours till they get here.

What are your thoughts on this story intro?

There's nothing that particularly hooks my attention, and it seems that you get a bit repetitive by the end of the second paragraph. Also, it seems a bit of an infodump. Show, don't tell. All and all, it's okay writing, but I'm not sure if I would buy the story. It just doesn't interest me enough.

Can a native speaker of English check structure and grammar of the sentences, thanks?

Six years ago I loved a girl who had a boyish appearance, she had dark bobbed hair and very attractive eyes. It was truly love at first sight. But I was very shy; there was a flush in my cheeks when she looked at me. But I mustered up enough courage to ask for her phone number. She opened my palm and wrote lightly on my hand. A few years later I returned to her city and saw her at the corner of the street, she saw me sand smiled at me. It is a pity that we did not speak.

I need advice. Whenever a girl talks to me all i can muster is 'hello' aand then there is an awkward silence!!?

I am fairly good looking(if that sounds cocky its not meant to) and whenever a girl talks to me my brain turns to mush and then all i want to do is shrink into a hole!! What can i do?? I really need help!!

Unknown writer trying to put out a novel, what do you think of my idea?

I'll just give the synopsis. I'll try to make it brief. So it's about this nerdy guy who is madly love with the head cheerleader at his high school set in the year 2511. He knows he has no shot with a girl like her but he feels like he at least has to go for it. So he finally musters up the courage to ask her out and she says I WOULDN'T DATE YOU IF YOU WERE THE LAST GUY ON EARTH!! He is humiliated, so much so that he drops out of school and runs away hides from the world. He settles himself in the heart of the amazon rain forest where after several years he goes insane and begins experimenting with gene splicing so that he can create the first giant spider-octopus hybrid that spews gamma radiation from it's tentacles. He trains these creatures to wipe out every guy on earth besides himself of course. He successfully does so after an intense battle and finds his true love, but it turns out shes a lesbo. So wacks the ***** he just ***** a bunch of sluts and repopulates the Earth, but then an asteroid comes out of nowhere and the Earth is completely destroyed. But it turns out it was all an hallucination from a coma cause it turns out the girl had a boyfriend and he beat the **** out of him after he asked out the girl. So he goes back to school and lives for another 17 years as a tax attorney in a life of solitude and dies when he falls down a chimney into a heating boiler. He mistook a chimney for a balcony.

SHOULD WE INDIANS ANNEX MOON BEFORE THE CHINESE DO?

as we know USA is collapsing and would be irrelevant by next 15-20 years,europe is dying of old age, china is planning to leave the INTERNATIONAL SPACE TREATY and has grand designs to capture moon because it has extremely valuable resources but our India is the only country in the planet which has the capability to see china eye to eye and as a leader of free-world we must protect our moon from the evil commies

What do these dreams mean? Are they connected?

Firstly, you're clearly suffering from insomnia. Try going to sleep before midnight and not sleeping with music on. Sounds to me in the first dream, your mind is telling you that you need to be in a tranquil place while sleeping. Music doesn't help this. If you need sound, try sleeping with nature sounds or white noise. The fact that you don't remember what is dream and what is reality is a strong indication of sleep deprivation.

Cheated on my wife with her friend?

I hate to be the one to tell you this but your wife was cheating on you first that's why she did not respond to your advances she is now living in your house with her new man and me makes more money than you and he has a 13 in penis

Girl is like a mom from the Maury show. Should I stop being her friend?

Well if you don't want to be friends with her anymore just say "well I want to be cool with you but not hang out as much" or "i do t like you leave me alone or we will have some problems" but if you still want to be friends with her just distance yourself a bit so you won't be so annoyed

Wildlife biology help? Please help?

I asked for advice for wolf biology but I do understand that we have a good grasp on it already. I was told about wildlife biology as a suggestion. Im in my last year of high school and because of tragic events in my life I've pretty much wasted my years in high school and haven't proven my full potential and because of this my average in biology is a C...I can't turn back time and prove how good I really am. I know some of you may read this and say well you shouldn't have slacked off,but if you knew my reasoning maybe you wouldn't be so quick to judge. Im very interested in animal behavior. I also cant to do zoology in my last year of high school because for some reason I would have had to take chemistry to get in but I find that irrelevant. I just need some kind of advise on how I can become what I want to be. Please help, I plain to show people how smart I really am but right now I just feel so discouraged by some of the answers ive been getting lately but im determined to do my best and need a little help to to kick me into the right direction. Help.

She said I'm only a friend, is there any hope for "us"?

Dude,welcome to the brotherhood! Millions have gone through what your going through, first of all,your very young still,stay focused with your classes and education. 2ndly, if you need to,watch your diet,exercise,small daily workouts every day, cut out sugar products completely. And as far as this girl, I'd leave her be, let her make the move, you did what you thought was a good idea, but,always stay friendly. Time is a good healer, and you may consider asking another girl out, but,you need to take a mind break from her, find someting to do, to occupy your time,stay of the computer,waiting for her, let a few days go by,send her a email, just keep it short,ask her how she's doing, how's her classes, just basic conversation. But, a cold shoulder, is a sign of not rejection, but,maybe she's not looking for a committed relationship, and she might not be offended by what you said, but, not sure how to re-act, so,she's just staying away. Do the same,give her the space, and move on,ask someone else out! Good luck!

Should I consider alternatives to school? If so, which alternatives should I consider?

Well, don't fear! Usually the creative thinkers who don't fit in the conventional box of the school system are the ones who have the most success in life. If you're in 11th grade, I would say tough it out because you're almost done with high school and then you can move on to bigger and better things. I don't know if you're the kind of person who might do this, but maybe if you talk to an older sibling, counselor, or cool teacher you can pull your grades up and prevent them from dropping next year. You seem like a really smart kid who is feeling defeated by things he can't control. So, don't feel that way because everything will work it's way out, someway or another. I've had a couple bouts of depression and I'm not going to tell you to stop being lazy and just do your work. I know how it feels and being told that you're lazy only makes it worse. Tough it out, and not to sound incredibly corny or optimistic, which I am neither, my former shrink once told me "It's always darkest before the dawn." Good luck to you with your future endeavors!

Hubby lies to me about porn!?

I am very uncomfortable with my boyfriend of 2 years watching porn. I told him after we made love, that I should be the only thing he should look at, and he agreed, and after a couple of him 'forgetting' he deleted all of it, and hasn't added any since. You need to tell him this, and maybe spice up his life. Send him some sexy pictures, suprised him in the shower something. Tell him if he is a good boy he will get a naughty reward. He will get over it don't stress.

Some Funny english dub animes?

If you do want to read you need to watch Hajime no Ippo. It's the best anime ever!!!! I think it is dub as well but all animes are better when it's not american language.

GAME SHOW????????????????????????

ohhhhh that was on the sci fi channel "Estate of Panic" thats the name i LOVE that show and its definitely the show you're thinking of :)

Can you search completed Ebay listings on your phone?

So I have a blackberry phone, don't remember what model but I think that's irrelevant anyways. Up until Thursday I was able to use my normal search and see completed listings on ebay. Then on Friday I went to use the same address I go to (wap.ebay.com) and it was completely different, and searching completed listings was a huge pain and I had to go through several pages just to search one item. So then I downloaded the ebay app for my blackberry, and the format was a little easier to navigate, but it didn't even have an option to search completed listings. So then I tried the "newer" version of the same address I had been using, and a day later the option for completed listings was not even available any longer. It is imperative that I am able to search completed listings, for what I sell on Ebay. So I guess I am wondering, IS there a way that you are able to search completed listings on your phone, and if so, what phone do you use? I think that the Iphone is able to do that, but other than the iphone, wondering if there's others that can do this? I think the apps are slightly different depending on your phone. I guess I'm just wondering what I need to buy at this point (phone) that will allow me to search completed listings on ebay. Thank you!

How do you help a person with problems?

Hi. I'm a 22 year old single mom. Ever since I was a kid, my family would compare me to my older siblings (we're 8: 2 brothers and 6 sisters) and would constantly tell me how I'm below their standards and how stupid I am. For years, I have carried those painful words they would tell me, and till now, they still keep on telling that to me. When I was in senior year in high school, I would always cut myself because of all the pain and humiliation I felt deep down. I couldn't tell anyone all the bottled-up anger, frustration, depression, sadness, and hurt I feel. I couldn't even muster to shed a single tear when they tell me how stupid, irresponsible, naive and weird I am. I tried committing suicide so many times I already lost count; even during my pregnancy. To add to all the pain, my family keeps on nit-picking on my daughter's dad, who left me when I told him I was carrying his child. It hurts so much. Recently, I found out my older sisters were talking behind my back, saying stuff that I thought they would never say to others. I don't know who I can trust anymore. I keep getting blamed for everything that goes wrong in our family and I had managed to deliberately hurt my own daughter. I would often shout and curse my daughter, slap her hard and tell her how much I hate her existence. I just can't seem to stop all the pain I feel inside. Please, tell me what I can do. I'm to afraid to talk to anyone since I don't know if I can trust them. I also want to know what's wrong with me.

For those of you who enjoy and get off on porn, do you respect them or what they do?

I have lack of respect for them because they don't respect their selves. Anyone who shows the world what they do in the bed room with others and maybe even to children has no respect for them selves. No, they are just on the net and tv and of corse I am going to get arroused when I see them in inter corse but that was me back then. Now when I see them it turns me away from sex because thats all everyone is so focused on no a days is who they are going to have sex with and when, it gets annoying.I would not be friends with one because the porn stars I see on tv and hbo seem to act like that out on the streets, they boast about how much they love sex and it wouldn't be good for the children.It's degrading because most men look at women as sex objects because women like that give it up for free and a woman who respects herself gets no attention because she does not go out of her way to degrade her self for attention and money. Porn stars are whores and prostitutes just like strippers because they get paid for what they do. No porn is not ok at all and no I would not marry one because like I said children are way more important then an adults selfish wants and needs

Looking for a web source to watch The Perfect Host movie online?

The Perfect Host is a thriller movie and I wanna watch the perfect host movie on this weekend. I have searched for the source to watch the perfect host movie online but I am not getting any source to watch this movie. So, If anybody know any resource to watch this movie?

Should I respond an old High School crush..?

In school I was a quiet chunky guy.. I had a crush on a girl and I finally mustered up the courage to ask her out and she rejected me.. now I'm 22.. I have a clear future with reachable goals.. I have an athletic build now.. Iv also grown to 7'0 tall.. Iv had a few flings with attractive women but nothing serious.. Now suddenly iv been contacted on Facebook and am being flirted with by the girl that rejected me in high school.. she has two kids now and isn't as attractive to me as i once found her to be.. but a part of me wants to date her.. i guess the chunky pathetic high school version of myself wants what he couldn't get.. on the other hand.. i could reject her the same way she rejected me.. what would you do?

Incredibly original idea for a movie what do you think?

I'll just give the synopsis. I'll try to make it brief. So it's about this nerdy guy who is madly love with the head cheerleader at his high school set in the year 2511. He knows he has no shot with a girl like her but he feels like he at least has to go for it. So he finally musters up the courage to ask her out and she says I WOULDN'T DATE YOU IF YOU WERE THE LAST GUY ON EARTH!! He is humiliated, so much so that he drops out of school and runs away hides from the world. He settles himself in the heart of the amazon rain forest where after several years he goes insane and begins experimenting with gene splicing so that he can create the first giant spider-octopus hybrid that spews gamma radiation from it's tentacles. He trains these creatures to wipe out every guy on earth besides himself of course. He successfully does so after an intense battle and finds his true love, but it turns out shes a lesbo. So wacks the ***** he just ***** a bunch of sluts and repopulates the Earth, but then an asteroid comes out of nowhere and the Earth is completely destroyed. But it turns out it was all an hallucination from a coma cause it turns out the girl had a boyfriend and he beat the **** out of him after he asked out the girl. So he goes back to school and lives for another 17 years as a tax attorney in a life of solitude and dies when he falls down a chimney into a heating boiler. He mistook a chimney for a balcony.

What does it mean to dream you are channeling?

i don't know.. but you can join on "saysadream" (search on google). There is a good place to find answers to your questions about dream...

What chapter do i continue after the ouran high school host club anime series has finished?

Please tell me the volume and chapter. Please do not give me answers such as: Start from volume 1. Thank you.

Why bother trying? Why make the effort to carry on?

I'm honestly sick of life, I've tried (time and time again) to make friends, go out, have fun, and live a normal and happy life. Unfortunately, that's just not the way things have worked out. I have no personality, no looks, and it seems as though nobody wants anything to do with me... hell if I was somebody else I sure as hell wouldn't want to. I've thought about just ending it all, you know, wipe my meaningless existence from the course of history, but I can't even muster the courage to do so. And the problem is, there isn't a goddamn thing I can do about it; it's just the way I am. So you tell me what you would do if you were in my shoes, because I've honestly had enough. I've had enough of doing my best to be nice, funny, and friendly, and still failing at everything. To sum it all up, I pretty much fail at life. And for those of you who think this is a joke, it really isn't, I say everything with total and utter truth. I just don't see the point in living a life like this anymore, sad and alone... do you?