Need some help and advice with this...?

I once heard and have practiced this in my own life, if you love something, set it free. If it was meant to be it will come back to you. This has been very true in my own personal experience. I too have a partner who I fell deeply in love with after a long period of just friendship, no sex involved--just friends. We fell in love and had a rough time due to various issues. I finally let my partner go and moved on with my life. Once I attempted to move on and stopped obsessing over my ex, he pursued me because we were probably meant to be. This may or may not be the case with your ex, but I definitely think that if you begin finding other things to do than thinking about her everyday, perhaps a project in your house, school, a new business, a club where you can meet new people, etc., that you may be suprised someday to find that your ex would like to begin a new relationship with you. Yes, starting over from the beginning and letting all of the past issues stay in the past. My best advice to you is let her go, do not contact her, make yourself so busy that you do not think about her so much, and most important, make yourself happy!!!!!!